“We Just Want to Know” — Why That Framing MattersA Response for Legislators, the Public, and Connecticut FamiliesRecent public comments—including those made by Patrick Biggins in a Connecticut Education Association discussion—have suggested that the state is simply seeking basic information about homeschool families, framed as:“We just want you to tell us that you’re homeschooling.”At first glance, this may sound reasonable.
But it is important to understand what this proposal actually represents—and what it leads to.
1. This Is Not Just “Information” — It Is Government RegistrationRequiring families to report that they are homeschooling is not a neutral act.It is:A government registration system
A mechanism that tracks lawful families
A structural change that shifts homeschooling from a right to a monitored status
Once established, this data does not exist in isolation.
It becomes the foundation for:Monitoring
Compliance checks
Future regulatory expansion
2. Lawful Behavior Should Not Trigger Government TrackingIn Connecticut, parents are already legally required to educate their children under existing compulsory education law (C.G.S. §10-184).Homeschooling is:Lawful
Established
Widely practiced
There is no legal or constitutional basis to treat a lawful parental decision as something that must be reported to the government absent any concern or allegation.The principle is simple:The state should not require families to identify themselves for exercising a lawful right.
3. The “We Need to Know” Argument Relies on a False ConnectionThe justification offered in the discussion included concerns about “missing children”:“We have thousands of kids missing from our school systems…”This framing is deeply misleading.It combines unrelated categories:Families who have lawfully chosen alternative education
Students experiencing truancy or disengagement
Families facing housing or immigration instability
There is no evidence that homeschool families are the source of this issue.Conflating these categories:Creates unnecessary fear
Misdirects policy
Shifts attention away from actual system failures
4. Data Collection Does Not Equal Child SafetyThere is no credible evidence showing that:Registration systems prevent abuse
Notification requirements improve outcomes
Tracking lawful families increases child safety
What does improve safety is:Effective response to actual reports of concern
Proper functioning of existing child protection systems
Creating a database of compliant families does not address failures in those systems.
5. “Just a Form” Is How Expansion BeginsPolicies like this are often presented as minimal:“Just a form”
“Just once a year”
“Just to help us plan”
But structurally, they are not minimal.They establish:A new authority
A new expectation of compliance
A new enforcement pathway
Historically and practically, these systems do not remain static.
They expand.
6. Planning and Budgeting Do Not Require Family ReportingThe claim that registration is needed for planning or budgeting does not hold up.State and local governments already:Estimate population and enrollment trends
Plan based on census, residency, and historical data
There is no demonstrated need to:Track individual homeschool families
Require disclosure of lawful educational choices
Planning does not require surveillance.
7. This Is Not About Resistance — It Is About PrincipleHomeschool families are not opposed to safety.
They are not opposed to education standards.They are opposed to:Being treated as a risk category without cause
Being required to report themselves to the government
Policies built on assumptions rather than evidence
Bottom LineThe phrase “we just want to know” minimizes what is actually being proposed.In reality, it is:A shift toward government tracking of lawful families
A solution in search of a problem
A policy built on mischaracterized data and false connections
Connecticut already has laws in place to:Require education
Address neglect or abuse
Intervene when there is cause
Expanding government authority over families who are already in compliance does not solve those problems. A free society does not require families to report themselves to the government for exercising a lawful right.That principle is worth protecting.
Try fixing the failing public schools before worrying about home educators who are clearly doing a superior job.
Link to the conversation so you can listen for yourself – here.
